If alcohol or penis paraphernalia is involved in your bachelorette party, odds are there will be photo ops that could one day aid in blackmailing you–or at least damage your Facebook reputation. So what’s the camera policy at your party?

There were no picture rules at mine, despite the fact that I draped giant-flower necklaces around my ears (hey, I can’t wear earrings!) and hot-pink tinsel around my head (it was meant to decorate chairs). The flashes were popping while I shook my derriere during a rousing karaoke rendition of “Baby Got Back” and accosted military personnel in my bizarre fuchsia outfit on the streets of Manhattan (it was Fleet Week).
In the grand scheme of things, these photos were pretty tame, so it didn’t bother me when they showed up on Facebook and Flickr, though I appreciated when friends e-mailed me the pics before making them public. But